Psychological support on the Neonatal Unit
Having a baby in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) can be a very challenging time. You may feel very worried about your baby, and uncertain about what the future holds.
Distress is a very natural response. You may be feeling worried, numb, angry, and sad. You may also find it hard to think clearly or make decisions.
It can be made more difficult by other common changes after childbirth including hormonal changes, disrupted sleep and physical discomfort. For this reason, you may find it helpful to meet with the neonatal psychologist for extra support or advice.
Who is the psychologist?
The NICU psychologist at Southmead Hospital is Dr Chessie (Francesca) Wood.
What does a psychologist do?
The psychologist can help you find ways to cope with some of the emotional challenges of NICU. This support may include:
- Making sense of how you’ve been feeling.
- Dealing with feelings of anxiety, sadness, anger, guilt, and loss.
- Managing the impact of your experiences on your relationships, for example with your partner, family, or the medical team.
- Thinking through difficult decisions relating to your baby’s care.
- Thinking about your relationship with your baby.
Psychologists are registered professionals with the Health and Care Professionals Council.
They do not prescribe medication. They use talking therapy that aims to reduce distress.
How can I be referred?
You can be referred at any stage of your baby’s admission to NICU.
If you would like to be referred, please ask any member of your hospital care team such as your baby’s nurse.
What happens after I am referred?
- You will be contacted to arrange a time to meet, either in hospital or via phone/video call if you prefer.
- The psychologist can see you on your own or with your partner or other family members. It is your choice.
- If you require an interpreter, please let us know.
- The first meeting is an opportunity to talk about what is most challenging for you. We can think together about what might support you while your baby is in NICU.
- There may be a small wait for appointments.
- Sometimes we have trainees working in the team, all of whom are supervised. We will check first to see if you are comfortable meeting with a trainee.
- Sometimes, it may be enough to meet with a psychologist once or twice, other times you may wish to meet more regularly.
What will happen to the information I share with the psychologist?
Any information you share with the psychologist is confidential. This means it will not be shared without your permission unless there is concern about risk of harm to you, your child, or others.
Parents sometimes find it useful to share information with the clinical team to help them understand the best way to communicate with you, and care for your baby.
Notes from your conversations are documented in your hospital record, this is separate to your baby’s medical notes. A brief record of contact is made in your baby’s medical notes to the clinical team are aware the psychologist has met you.
The decision to use the psychology service is entirely up to you. If you decide not to, it will not affect your baby’s care.
Useful resources
This page on the North Bristol NHS Trust website has links to many organisations who provide support and information to parents of babies in the neonatal unit: NICU Useful Links | North Bristol NHS Trust
South West Neonatal Network
The South West Neonatal Network have put together virtual tours of the neonatal units in the area as well as the ambulances that transfer neonatal babies in the region. You may find this useful to look at before your first visit: SW Neonatal Units — South West Neonatal Network
Contact us
You can contact our team Monday to Friday (excluding bank holidays) 09:00 to 16:00 on 0117 414 6818.
You can ask any of your baby’s care team to contact us on your behalf and they will be happy to help.
Give us feedback
We hope you are pleased with the psychological service you receive.
Our service is continually developing and reviewing our practice so we can ensure families receive the best support possible.
When your support from our service comes to an end, you may be asked if you are happy to be contacted for your feedback and views on how the services can be improved.
If you have concerns about the service you receive from the psychologist, please discuss them with the psychologist or another member of the NICU team.
If this does not address your concerns, please contact the Patient Experience Team on 0117 414 4569 or email pals@nbt.nhs.uk.
© North Bristol NHS Trust. This edition published March 2025. Review due March 2028. NBT003711.
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